Welcome to Real As Women. A page for self-improvement, self-love, & support.

We can never apologize for being born into blackness. It takes a special being to be able to handle that kind of pressure. Believe you me...it's not for the faint at heart. Every day we have to fight to stay alive...to stay relevant...to stay loving, to stay...human. Believe you me...it's a struggle, and know one thing...it takes courage. And that's all we know...being born into blackness with gold between your legs creates enemies, envy, and can be quite enticing. You can see how and why so many hate the very existence of its essence. Needless to say, it's not the issue. We recognize the power of it. The black woman isn't a thing at all...it's a force to be reckoned with, so no wonder it is so feared. It has been under attack for so long, and yet it still rises with grace. The power of the force amplifies when forces are joined. The entity sparks up a conversation across the nations. So, how is the black woman so powerful...so dark, yet has all of the light? Below, are the seven elements of the black woman.

We are here to sow the seed, so that our nation will plant, and continue to grow. 

The undeniable feeling of acceptance.The knowing of a safe-haven for your vulnerabilities to be set free without judgement and ridicule. Understanding that the heart is an organ that can be easily damaged and destroyed, so it must be handled with complete care. With this knowledge it is declared vital and necessary to share and spread these gifts to those that are in need because without it, the world can turn cold. What has just been described is the love of a black woman. That is where is begins. 

The undertones are every element that the earth possesses. In it lies our complexions, full of radiance, nutrients, and minerals. This is the very essence of the black woman. We carry the nutrients of the earth in us. That is the beauty of our people. This is also why it is important to stay connected to nature...Mother Nature. 

Black women have always been intertwined with Mother Nature, embodying resilience, power, energy, and strength reminiscent of the earth itself. From ancestral ties to nurturing communities, the connection is a harmonious dance. This dance celebrates the beauty, power, and enduring spirit that flows through both black women and the natural world. 

The spiritual connection between black people and rhythm runs deep, transcending time and echoing the elasticity of the soul. Especially, the music of a black woman, in the curvature of her body, to the movement of her hips, it becomes a sacred vessel for expression, a spiritual journey intertwining with history, culture, and a profound sense of identity. That is how the black woman relates to music. Having the natural capabilities to communicate through rhythm and song. The vibrations that activate the spirit serves as a powerful conduit of expression, resilience, power, and communal identity. 

The importance of family holds a profound significance in the foundation of the black community, serving as a pillar of support, empowerment, heritage, cultural, significance, tradition, and preservation. The foundation builds unity, fortitude, and shared values, fostering a sense of belonging that transcends generations and empowers those that come from us. 

The dynamics of the family rely on powerful and strong leaders that consist of man and woman. Together they create the generations. This trifold builds a structure that is unbreakable when challenged. The role of a black woman is the clone of the queen chess piece, navigating through her family, securing the future of its entirety. That is the connection between the black woman and family. 

Protection and security form the bedrock of the family structure and kingdom, ensuring the well-being and flourishing of its members. This is why it is so important to the woman to find and have both security and protection. In this sanctuary is where there is comfort, stability, and the nurturing environment necessary for personal growth, fostering a solid foundation that stands as a shield against life's uncertainties. 

Without it, it's difficult to maneuver throughout life, making one a target, causing the woman to project more of a masculine energy for survival. These characteristics may be found more often in the black woman, due to the lack of protection and security that she receives from society. This in turn making her the most sought after and feared human on the planet. The black woman's protection and security is necessary for the ecosystem that we live in to stay balanced. 

Respect is the black woman's love language. The respect of the black woman is crucial as it acknowledges and honors her contributions and individuality. 

The one contribution that only the black woman can give is, the Mitochondrial Gene. The Eve Gene to some. This revolutionary gene carried by the black woman is a unique thread connecting generations, symbolizing creation and continuity. This genetic legacy not only shapes society's identity but also contributes to the broader narrative of human history, emphasizing the importance of recognizing and celebrating the profound impact black women have on the tapestry of humanity's shared existence. For this alone, the black woman will always walk with esteem, but will be challenged to keep their respect. That is why it's imperative that we respect one another. 

Since the beginning of time the black woman has been the nutrients of society as a whole. Nurturing from a black woman is crucial as it embodies a legacy of power, compassion, and suppleness. Rooted in cultural history, her nurturing presence fosters a sense of belonging, empowers growth, and instills values that contribute to the well-being of individuals and the community at large. This is something that we must also implement among one another. 

For black women, nurturing one another, including her inner child is essential for building a supportive and healthy community and family, fostering personal well-being. In a world where resilience is often tested, mutual support creates a collective strength, and self-nurturing becomes a vital act of self-preservation, enabling them to navigate challenges with grace and empowerment. 

These seven elements are all essential for the evolution of the black woman and her community. Take what you will, and leave what you must. May this educate you and evolve you to greatness.